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Matters of the heart

Human nature is such that it can either catapult you to ecstasy or throw you down with a thud ! The thud hurts and we wonder if we can walk again . Yes you can . Just believe in yourself and you will . 



                                                                                      



We often confuse what we are feeling with who we really are. 

We begin to build this persona that we are not good enough, and because we feel bad then we think we are bad. 

We hold onto a false identity because it sits so deep within us that we begin to think and see it as our truth. 

If we keep our mind and heart disconnected we end up becoming dysfunctional, inattentive, distracted, and remote. 

This causes harm to us and our relationships. 


 We create situations to protect ourselves from pain and hurt but these can disconnect us from our true feelings

 When we  let down our guard and inhibitions with others - we let more of life in and let more of life out.  


This can be healed through sharing your joy and love rather than having to revisit that pain again and again.

When another  person  understands your feelings it helps to build a  bonding through your heart.

So, reach out to that one person who understands you and bring those hidden feelings out of your system .

It is your first step towards healing yourself .

                                                                          



We all know that life is a series of ups and downs .At every stage ,we go through a multitude of emotions and sometimes we just let ourselves drown in our difficulties .Don't forget that it is just a teenie weenie part of your life . Don't stop ,get over it . You have the power to throw all this behind you ,you'll forget it real soon .Look within , understand your strengths and weaknesses  at this stage and don't be too harsh on yourself .  Reach out to someone who cares enough to hold your hand and pull you up .  Believe me , this too shall pass .                                           Listen to your heart ..... ALWAYS ! 




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  1. Blue Dandilon28 June 2014 at 05:28

    The stars are so big, the earth is so small..stay as you are. – Pram (Too Pure 1993, Eng.) Be your self and you will be appreciated.

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    1. preeti abrol22 August 2014 at 02:57

      Yes Blue Dandelion ,isn't it just amazing . Liked your advice . Sorry for not seeing your comment earlier

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